TRADITIONS - START NEW ONES OR KEEP THE OLD ONES - part 1

 Its been a while, so lets get in to it.. wedding traditions. What is your call on it?  "Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue".  Where did they come from? or lets talk about even having a wedding (that's a good one).

"Something Old" - Most brides who follow the “something old” tradition will borrow a family member’s wedding dress or jewelry, but brides of past centuries had no problem wearing someone else’s bloomers. History states it originated during the mid-19th century “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe,” .  These things are suppose to bring luck to the bride luck for not only her wedding day, but also her chances of becoming pregnant. While “something old” could be almost anything, “something borrowed” was often a pair of bloomers on loan from a person who was already a mother.  Does this make you think differently regarding this tradition?  How would you change it and leave it?

Leave me a comment ....

What do you know what LOVE!? my take of course..lol

 I LOVE,  LOVE!!! How do you feel about love?  I think "love at first sight" is real, I know long time love is real.  I think that there is a soulmate out there for you.  The sad thing is that it is sometimes not the person that you are married to.  NOW please don't blast me, I said sometimes.

Know what love really is.  Love for me is when there is a person who will be ride or die for your.  Will hang up the phone when you walk in the room and give you all the attention that you deserve.  When you sick they will do the cooking and cleaning.  When the love is unconditional and will not bring your past in your face, in the future.  Love is when life hits hard that, that person will be there and comfort you in any storm that comes.  Love is not 50, 50; love is 100% of you.  

The NLT Bible states  Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a treasure and he receives favor from the Lord.  So may question is.  Have you found your good thing? Whether man or woman?  Have you left your hurt behind? Have you healed from the last relationship so that you can find your true love?

Healing.. lets talk about it?  Have your healed so you don't bleed on your new relationship?  Stop jumping around from person to person trying to find the "right one" until you have spoken that bad relationship name without getting mad.

Marriage... it is said, you are only to get married once?  Well for some, they are on their 5th marriage. 
Reason unknown or denial.  Unknown because they don't know or denial because they do not want to admit they played a big part in it.  I am not talking about domestic violence or an abusive, toxic relationship.  I am talking about, it just did not work for whatever reason.

Sex.. is not a bad word.  Please be educated on it and know your body and your partners as well.  Know when her cycle starts and ends.  Know that you have to clean his foreskin (if he still has it) before and after you have sex.  If he/she does not know what to do to please, please teach them.  Tell them what you like and how you like it.  Some like bondage (i am not the one) and you feel comfortable, then go for it, but please have a safety word, we do not want you to go to prison for having a consensual good time.  Sex is stated to be only for reproducing, but you have to have some fun in it and I am not talking about taking it against someones will.  Again that is a prison sentence.  Experiment, go outside of your box, try something different, you may like it.  Do not feel ashamed of who you are.  Sex is healthy and can be fun.  Because when you in love, you know their body, you know how to please them, so that you can get pleasure as well.  Don't be selfish and you have an orgasm and they have not not.  Finished what you started.  Sex is awesome when done correctly.  If you not trying to have children, protect yourself with some kind of birth control (abstinence may be the key), Females, put the condom on him, you just killed took care of your foreplay and your protection.  Make sure he don't take it off.. you hold it.  Male don't fall for it, she may be protected from pregnancy, but not from disease.  Educate yourself, ask question, it may help both of you.  But if the sex is good and the attitude of the character is crazy, then get you some and leave.  Make you sure that all parties involve know what the sex is all around.  Tell them before your kiss whether is a one night stand, i am trying to get to know you or hit it and quit it or you are the real one.  Do not experiment with someone and you end up in prison or dead.  

Know your person before you put that ring on your finger.  Be brutally honest with that person that you say you love, even it hurts.  To me there is the relationship, engagement and then marriage.  Within the relationship, there is enough time to figure out who and what this person is all about.  If you break up during the relationship and the engagement, then counseling is needed.  Marriage Counseling is so important.  The counselor will give you questions, that you did not think of.  Exercises that will assist you in making your decision.  If there is something wrong, mentally, physically, financially then stop, think and DON'T DO IT!!!  Stop this off and on thing and wasting people's time.  There is nothing wrong with being alone.

On that note, single is not a bad word.  Don't allow anyone to pressure you into marriage, male or female.  If you are not married, it is not a curse.  Please do not marry her if she is pregnant, it is not honorable, because you will come to resent her and hate yourself for what you have done.  I am not an expect, but I have enough people in my life to know.  Just make sure it's your kid and take care of that baby and don't give the mother a hard time.  Mothers allow fathers to see their children, if they do not want to be with you, do not use the children as pawns.  

I love love if it is done right, what is right, there is no answer.  But what I can tell you is there is no mental, physical and emotional abuse, there is no off and on relationship, there is no cheating physical or virtual.  there is only you two with honesty, trust, communication and laughter.

Love you first, so that someone else can love you.

  

Finally

 So 2020 may not have the greatest year, but it was a blessed year.  I reinstated MoMc Creations, LLC, I purchased more equipment, I received new opportunities and I now working on my website momccreations.com and also separated my Instragram to have now MoMc Creations.  I am excited for what 2021 will bring.  

By December 25, 2020, check it out.  Tell me how you like it.  See you on the website!!

Long time everyone

So I just wanted to say HELLO/ Peace and greetings/ blessings to everyone; it has been a long time.  I am back with some awesome items that I have created since I have been gone.  I hope you like them and purchase them.  MoMc Creations on Facebook see the photos and comment  Holidays are coming and I am ready to create with you in mind.  As always, Love you .

Photos

I have added new photos to MoMc Creations Facebook, check them out & tell me what you think. Love MO

Wedding Accessories - Jump the Broom!!!!

I specialize in creating Wedding Brooms. For those of you who don't know what I am talking about, "Jumping the Broom". It is one tradition that should never, ever die.

Some people put them up in their homes for faith (some people call it "Good Luck"), to "sweep" (get it) away all negative stuff that is in the home and what energy people bring into your home; others, jump the broom. The significance of this tradition is to sweep old things away and cross (jump) over into a new life together. When I create a Broom, I create something that you can hang over your mantel when your special day is over. I also give you a manifest to explain to you the meaning, origin and how to incorporate the "Jumping of the Broom" into your ceremony.

I create the traditional sweep broom and the more modern one which is longer and curly.

I also create the Ring Pillow and Flower Basket if you desire

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Hope that this helps you in understanding what the "Jumping of the Broom" stands for.

Newest of life, leaving all negative things behind, tradition, hertiage, pride, Faith, love. Becoming one with a person that is your best friend, your lover, your truth, helpmate and soulmate.

Try it, you may LOVE it!!

I was talking to a lady from Nigeria and she stated that this is not an African tradition.  I told her that it was because during slavery, African-Americans were not allowed to get married, so what we did to join the union,  is jump the broom.  The owners thought it was funny that we would even want to marry.  Marriage to owners gave us power and authority within our families and communities and they did not want that, too much power.  It is ok to live together but to marry?  Illegal, sham, an abomination.

So we JUMP to join in the sight of G-d, family and friends, we JUMPED to show that we need families, we need our man and women, we JUMP because it was our right to marry whoever we please.  There is so much more regarding this renewed now tradition, that this starts your research.

In the 18th century, it was stated that jumping the broom was called an "irregular marriage", the broomstick wedding or the sham marriage, the marriage of doubtful validity; but for some , it was called a chance to love and be loved.  It was called strength in darkness.  It was called family and community.

The Jumping of the Broom ceremony is held to the end of the Wedding ceremony.  After the Officials perform the Joining, then the couple will jump the broom and walk out to start the beginning of a new life.

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Incorporate Jumping the Broom into your ceremony!!

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